Cover Painting Artist / Brooklyn Nelson / Two Harbors High School / Class of 2026
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“What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.”
Pericles, Ancient Greece Politician – Referenced in “Legacy” by James Kerr
Posted on the wall inside Miles P. Henderson Field House in Canadian, Texas
Chapter 18: Stacking Wood
GAMEDAY – 10:00 am
Earlier, I mentioned something else that happened in the hours leading up to the Homecoming Game.
September mornings in Minnesota are a prelude to polar temperatures. The first morning chill of fall catches everyone’s attention. Winter preparations commence. Squirrels gather nuts. Bears make their beds—or something like that, in caves. Deer and foxes grow a thicker coat of fur. Canadian geese get out of town—perhaps some ride the wind to a city whose name resonates with theirs—Canadian, Texas.
Humans also prepare.
Early in the week, an elderly local citizen contacted Two Harbors High School. A pile of firewood had been delivered to their unsheltered backyard. Their wood-burning stove would keep their family warm and offset the costs of other heating alternatives.
“Could any of the kids from the school stack our winter woodpile for us?”
Two boys and their dad answered the call on Friday morning, hours before their 7 pm game. Two Harbors High School operates on a four-day schedule. There is no school on Fridays for the students. Eight hours available to complete their homework or just sit around playing mindless video games (writes a snobbish, grumpy old man who happens to know every single nuance of “Medal of Honor: Frontline” Playstation 2 video game. The “Derailed” mission is best). Or, perhaps the brothers and their dad would opt to use these hours to make a difference—to leave an impression—and, in their small way, to make this town a better place.
The family fell into traditional roles during this 46-mile round trip. Dad managed the gas pedal, brakes, blinkers, and steering wheel. The brothers would argue over the road trip playlist. This trip from “the country” would be sonically accompanied by country. One fought for Luke Combs—the other for Morgan Wallen. The young passengers were known to be swift, but their music wasn’t.
This was an exceptional day for all involved. The weather was unseasonably cooperative—68 degrees with a few clouds. The wood pile was stacked in short order. Later that night, one of the boys—a sophomore, played very well in the Homecoming game. The other brother scored four touchdowns. The father, who spent quality time with two of his sons during the day, coached his team to victory.
Pregame rituals of rest, stretching, and hydrating were taken to the woodshed.
Meanwhile, a local family felt comforted—by the warmth of their wood stove and the peace of knowing they weren’t alone.

Carter and Tate Nelson after stacking a wood pile taller than them on game day morning.
September 22, 2023
Chapter 19: It's Not About the Couch
“At the end of the day, it’s not about what you have or even what you’ve accomplished, it’s about who you’ve lifted up, who you’ve made better. It’s about what you’ve given back.”
Denzel Washington
The school administrator’s phone rang on Friday morning:
“Hello,” he answered.
“I’ve heard your football players sometimes assist local residents with projects. Is that true?” the citizen asked.
“We sure do. Other kids help, too. Basketball players. Cheerleaders, and others.”
“Well, how does it work?”
“You tell us what you need, and we’ll see if any kids are available. We ask you to limit your expectations to a maximum of two hours of their time. Some kids have other jobs, need to do schoolwork, and need time to be kids like we did when we were their age. We also ensure that we have at least one adult with the kids. Sometimes that’s a coach; sometimes it’s one of their parents.”
“Oh, I completely understand. I can’t believe they’d even offer two hours of their time. Does it cost anything?”
“No, we don’t charge anything—it’s a community service initiative. But if you’d like to make a small donation, that’s OK. We put that towards the budget to pay for sports uniforms and other equipment. So, what kind of work do you need to be done?”
“Well, my late husband and I cleaned our gutters for years, but I’m no longer confident about climbing the ladder alone. All the leaves have fallen from the trees, and I’m sure the gutters are full. Can they help with that?”
“Sure! Give us some time to round up a few guys, and I’ll get back to you. How soon do you need this done? “
“Oh, no hurry. Whenever they are available.”
“OK, stay tuned.”
Fifteen minutes later, the administrator called the homeowner. “We’ve got three boys and a coach available tomorrow morning at 10:00. Will that work for you?”
“You’re kidding. You already found kids willing to help?”
“Yes, we have a great group of kids in town. They are happy to help. We even have one boy from Duluth Marshall who plays on our football team and volunteered to drive up here to help. We’ll bring our ladder.”
“Wait. Did you say he drives 25 miles from Duluth to help and then drives back home?”
“Yes. Other kids from Marshall and Lakeview Christian Academy and Silver Bay have come to Two Harbors to help with some of these projects.”
“Wow. Well, this is fantastic. I’ll be waiting for them tomorrow morning. Thank you so much.”
As promised, the boys and the coach showed up at 10 am, then clowned around a bit while cleaning the gutters and packing the leaves into large paper bags. Within 30 minutes, they were near completion of the job.
The homeowner handed the coach an unnecessary but much-appreciated donation. Then, the coach grabbed the ladder and loaded it into his truck.
He turned around in time to notice some peculiar behavior.
The homeowner stood near the dwindling pile of leaves as the boys raked and bagged them. As each boy dumped a handful of leaves into the bag, the coach noticed a series of handoffs deftly performed reminiscent of the Agates Double Wing misdirection offense. One boy walked this way and appeared to have received a handoff. A second boy walked in the opposite direction and seemed to accept a similar handoff.
As the third boy approached the appreciative woman, the coach used his outdoor voice yet in a whimsical, lighthearted tone:
“Hey, what’s going on here?” he questioned.
The players, accustomed to following orders from their coach, now barked out the orders:
“You stay out of this, coach!”
“This is none of your business, coach.”
The homeowner expressed her appreciation by giving a few dollars to each boy. Later that day, rumors circulated that they’d seriously damaged a local restaurant’s inventory levels of chicken nuggets and French fries.
Help had been requested, provided, and appreciated. Strangers would forever become familiar faces—maybe even friends. Once again, the Agates Family expanded its reach.
Some days are better than others. This particular Saturday started well for everyone involved.
"Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness you are able to give."
Eleanor Roosevelt
To extend the concept of “FAMILY” beyond the playing fields to the rest of the community, athletes/cheerleaders/other students have assisted in many ways:
- Moving families from one place to another
- Moving furniture, such as a dresser, from one room to another or moving exercise equipment.
- Raised funds for AEDs (heart defibrillators) for the school by hosting and serving a pancake breakfast at the Fire Hall.
- Friends of the Library – Each October, the library has a sale of excess books. This occurs in a conference room at the hospital. The books are boxed at the library, carried out to vehicles, and transported to and from the hospital. Anyone who has moved books knows this is hard work. The kids do this.
- It’s a longstanding tradition for the Masonic Lodge to make, bake, and sell pasties. Cheerleaders spend the entire day in the kitchen at THHS to assist in the making of thousands of them. For every person who grew up in Two Harbors, the day our parents and grandparents brought those home for dinner was one of the greatest days of the year. For the record, the pasties with rutabaga in addition to potatoes are the best.
- Serving meals for Veteran’s Day—and other events at the American Legion Post
- Serving meals for various events at the local Moose Lodge.
- Shoveling snow for local senior citizens
- Supporting the event when “Thomas The Train” rolled into town
- Assisting annually with crowd management for Grandma’s Marathon, an event from Two Harbors to Duluth, with 8,000 runners in 2023.
- It’s not just the athletes: The high school choir visited with—and sang to, seniors at the Barross Cottage Senior Living Community.
- As they’ve done since 2014, the THHS Trap Team placed United States flags beside the graves of veterans at Lakeview Cemetery on Memorial Day, 2024.
- In June of 2024, organizers of “Grandma’s Marathon”—a race with nearly 7,000 humans willing to run—not drive—but run 26.2 miles from Two Harbors to Duluth needed volunteers to install hundreds of feet of snow fence for race security. The work involves pounding fence posts into the ground. It’s hard work. Ten volunteers stepped up and got the job done. The volunteers were cheerleaders.
Chase Pierce said, “I like seeing the recognition people get on the Facebook page. It makes me feel good that I could help someone get something done to improve their life.”
Amir Ali:
“I’d have to believe it makes the people we helped feel pretty good. Maybe we get a few more fans of our football team. It extends our bond from our locker room and our coaches out to the community, and then they feel closer to us, so we have more support. It just creates a better overall vibe for the town.”
Mike Pierce, Chase’s father:
“It’s great to see them volunteering. I know people appreciate it. I know how hard it is to just move across town.
Troy Carlson:
“It’s scary when you mis-maneuver something, and it bumps into their wall! We moved an elliptical from a garage to a basement. We made sure there was nothing on the walls. We had to take paintings down to ensure that if we did hit the wall, it wouldn’t break anything. There were five or six of us, but only three of us could carry it at any one time because there were some tight turns in the stairway.”
Staying true to his much-appreciated comedic form, Troy Carlson said, “It was difficult, but I think we’d all volunteer to move another elliptical machine again. We know how hard it is for us younger guys to do this.“ Then, while looking at the far end of the table at Do North, directly at his Athletic Director—Scott Ross, Carlson added, “We can imagine how hard it would be for someone as old as Mr. Ross to do this.“
Hoping to capitalize on his one-on-one time with his AD, Carlson asked, “Mr. Ross, when can we get a real playlist for basketball games? I don’t want songs from the 1940s. I want modern music.“
After overcoming his laughter, Ross cited a situation where he’d received a voicemail from a local resident requesting help. Less than two hours later, when he called the resident back for additional information, they already had a crew of guys who’d volunteered for the job. The resident’s daughter had contacted one of the coaches directly. The call went out. The volunteers signed up.
While pointing to the football players at the table, Ross said, “These guys are amazing.“
Even Troy Carlson.
It’s impossible to watch college football games without noticing that most colleges have their team logo and smaller helmet stickers indicative of the athletes’ achievements.
If you grew up in the Midwest in the 60s and 70s, one of your earliest exposures to helmet stickers occurred while watching the Woody Hayes-led Ohio State Buckeyes. Stars like Archie Griffin, Cornelius Greene, Jack Tatum, Jim Stillwagon, and Pete Johnson wore helmets covered with those flowery-looking stickers. Multiple sources—including the ultimate insider—Two Harbors native Jerry Emig, “Associate AD- Football Communications,” indicate that helmet stickers are currently awarded to Ohio State football players based on the following criteria:
- If Ohio State wins a conference game, each player is awarded two stickers.
- If Ohio State beats its biggest conference rival, the Michigan Wolverines, each player gets three helmet stickers.
- Each player also receives stickers based on achieving individual performance objectives.
That’s all good. The Two Harbors Agates award helmet stickers, too. The criteria are a bit different—none related to individual on-field performance.
- Community Service Hours
- Honor Roll
- Merit Roll
- Weight Room Participation
- Team Wins
The message the school administrator sends while requesting assistance from the student-athletes seems effective. Perhaps it’s a text message, something like:
“Is anyone available to help a resident move to an apartment on Saturday?”
If it isn’t already, perhaps the message should be:
“Is anyone available to make this town a better place to live?“
“Is anyone available to remind a resident they aren’t alone?“
“Is anyone available to make a difference in someone’s life?“
“Is anyone available to do something you’ll probably never forget?“
“Is anyone available to do something for a local resident that they will surely never forget?”
One family, who asked not to be identified, shared their thoughts:
“We hope the kids and coaches understand how much they are appreciated and how meaningful this is. It’s been years since they helped our family. Our appreciation hasn’t faded. We don’t take what they did for granted.
Like all of us, these kids will have ups and downs—some bad days. When they do, we hope they remember when they helped our family. We hope they remind themselves of the kindness they’ve offered others. We hope they know their kindness will forever be remembered and appreciated. Maybe it will serve as a boost for them. It sure has inspired us.
They moved our family member’s furniture from one apartment to another–the bed, dresser, clothes, desk, couch, and more. But this wasn’t about that couch. With each act of assistance, they unite this community. They are more than football players–they are good kids–learning important life lessons. Maybe even teaching adults some life lessons–like compassion and unselfishness. I wish we had done the same when we were their age. If one of the goals of their work is to illustrate the value of belonging to something bigger than themselves, then their mission was most certainly accomplished.
This town has something to be very proud of.”
In the early years of implementing the FAMILY concept, Coach Nelson decided to rally his athletes around the nobility of helping families move from one home to another. What was the deep-seated motivation for choosing that option? Honestly, I never asked him. It didn’t seem like a big deal.
Fifteen months after writing my first sentence, I made one final phone call. During that call, the pathway for Dot A to connect with Dot B, then Dot C became clear. I didn’t know I was missing a piece of the FAMILY puzzle. I accidentally found it. Everything finally made sense.
You’ll understand later in this story.
Agates Football - Community Builders
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Contributors
Thank you to everyone for their contributions, guidance, and patience:
Special thanks to these four people without whom this story couldn’t have been written:
Tom Nelson – Head Coach, Football, Two Harbors Agates
Angie Nelson – Football Wife, Mother of five, Good Citizen
Scott Ross – Activities Director, Lifelong Friend
Melanie Ross – Cheerleading Coach, School Librarian, Alleged Saint
COVER PICTURE PAINTING
Brooklyn Nelson
ACTIVITIES DIRECTORS – Two Harbors Co-op
Kevin Snyder – Marshall School, Duluth, MN
Melissa Milroy – Lakeview Christian Academy, Duluth, MN
CHECK THE BOXES
Kyle Anderson – Coaching Staff
Todd Beck – Coaching Staff
Andrew Schreyer – Coaching Staff
Ben Eliason – Coaching Staff
Carol Anderson – Parent
AGATES COACHES+SUPPORT
Andy Morsette – Assistant Coach
Bill Anderson – Assistant Football Coach, Boys Basketball Coach
Josh Widdes – “Just an Assistant Coach”
Ryan McIntyre – Assistant Coach – Statistician
Scott Libal – Assistant Coach
COLOR GUARD – ANDERSON CLAFFY POST 154, TWO HARBORS
Jim Latvala
Scott Adams
Rey Lakso
67 SECONDS
Aaron Churness
Alec Churness
Emma Churness
Katelin Johnson
CHEERLEADERS SECTIONS
Atlanta Ness
Emma Churness
Emma Grover – Carlton/Wrenshall Girls Basketball
Heidi Holbeck
Max Byzewski – Cheerleader
Savannah Anderson – Cheerleader
Tina Marie Beck-Jones
Melanie Ross – Advisor
FOOTBALL PLAYERS
Amir Ali
Troy Carlson
Tommy DeChantal
Hugo Helstrom
Josh Johnson
Zach Johnson
Trenton Meeks
Scout Pfeffer
Chase Pierce
Jake Widdes
Thank You
Thanks to my wife, Vickie, for her endless support throughout this process including her understanding of my need for short-notice road trips.
Thanks to my mom, Carol Davis Healy, for her everlasting encouragement to keep writing. Someday, I might actually start believing, like you, that I’m a writer.

